tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post5796898627781095993..comments2023-10-19T13:49:42.878+02:00Comments on Embracing who we are…: Why doesn’t she love me?Gabriela Abalohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-59247039253635660252010-03-21T12:44:47.631+02:002010-03-21T12:44:47.631+02:00Hi Kirk,
I'm glad too, life is beautifully gr...Hi Kirk,<br /><br />I'm glad too, life is beautifully great and I'm enjoying the ride!!<br />The past is part of who I am, although it still painful to remember it, I’m thankful for the teachings,. <br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-36916140639606277132010-03-20T22:24:20.846+02:002010-03-20T22:24:20.846+02:00Compelling. Glad you survived it.Compelling. Glad you survived it.Kirkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02155991693956178030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-25361828706572496212010-03-20T19:53:46.443+02:002010-03-20T19:53:46.443+02:00Dear Kass,
So nice to see you back.
I will keep ...Dear Kass, <br />So nice to see you back. <br />I will keep sharing my journey with all my readers. Now I’m ready to do so.<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-528540300066027392010-03-20T19:50:56.530+02:002010-03-20T19:50:56.530+02:00@ CleoCleo,
People are different, there are things...@ CleoCleo,<br />People are different, there are things that can’t be explained, they just are. But we can really learn a lot from them. They teach us about forgiveness and unconditional love, I think that is where the main challenge is, not to allow rage and bitterness hunt us for the rest of our life.<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-13515229342198001332010-03-19T17:24:56.336+02:002010-03-19T17:24:56.336+02:00I'm back again too because I love reading the ...I'm back again too because I love reading the comments of your friends. We all share pain, but this connection we feel through the internet is quite a healing thing. I thank you for your part in it. I look forward to what you will write to help others on their journey.Kasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05233330248952156754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-10805413166451829102010-03-19T16:14:52.959+02:002010-03-19T16:14:52.959+02:00Gabriela
This is indeed is a sad story. I cant i...Gabriela<br /><br />This is indeed is a sad story. I cant imagine that we can bring someone to the earth and start mistreating that person (whom you shared the umblical cord with. But we have seen these things happen. For us who are priviledged to be approached for help, we should not hesitate to bring these issues to light. CleoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-39794149979452930572010-03-19T15:04:03.267+02:002010-03-19T15:04:03.267+02:00Badger,
It hurts indeed, every time I think I’m o...Badger,<br />It hurts indeed, every time I think I’m over it something happens and I’m reminded that is still painful. <br />I haven’t got an answer and maybe she doesn’t have one either. But I do try to understand the reasons she could have to be that way… I will write about it, it will be a nice healing exercise. <br /><br />Thank you for your caring comment.<br /><br />I enjoy your blog very much, your pictures are amazing. <br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-68295886476563911012010-03-19T09:16:13.988+02:002010-03-19T09:16:13.988+02:00Thank you Standing for coming back.
After traveli...Thank you Standing for coming back. <br />After traveling none stop for 15 years (so I could find myself) I feel that now I'm ready to go back to my beloved Uruguay and open up my heart so I can share my spiritual journey with others. <br />Disclosing my past (this is just the begging) is a very important step in my life, it is part of my journey. <br />I don't need to hide anymore, I don’t need to pretend I’m invulnerable (that nothing hurt me), now I’m free, I have reach peace and love. <br />My heart is once again open, you have to see the beautiful “urdhva dhanurasana” I’m able to do now, something that was almost in the line of “impossible” for me, even a few months ago.<br /><br />Namaste dear Standing<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-32393599888200815872010-03-19T06:10:21.061+02:002010-03-19T06:10:21.061+02:00Why doesn't she love me? For no good reason. ...Why doesn't she love me? For no good reason. There's no answer to a question like that, because there is no answer. For no good reason. And that's all there is to say about it. It hurts.Jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11938379025774754317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-70445316683237455602010-03-19T05:20:52.450+02:002010-03-19T05:20:52.450+02:00gabi, i had to come back again. your courage in di...gabi, i had to come back again. your courage in disclosing this part of your life astounds me. you have obviously traveled far (geographically and metaphorically) to reach peace.i am so glad you have found it. i am so glad you share it.<br />namasterrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06457746929116908077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-76204819167952799632010-03-18T15:48:03.073+02:002010-03-18T15:48:03.073+02:00Annie,
We are not alone, we aren’t the first neith...Annie,<br />We are not alone, we aren’t the first neither the last to go through this kind of emotional hell… but we did survive. <br />Now it is time to share our journey so others can have faith and strength to overcome their own hells. <br /><br />As Hubert Humphrey said: “Oh, my friend, it's not what they take away from you that counts. It's what you do with what you have left.” <br /><br />Thank you Annie for sharing.<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-85698388175817369362010-03-18T15:37:15.366+02:002010-03-18T15:37:15.366+02:00Sherry,
We do have the strength to overcome every ...Sherry,<br />We do have the strength to overcome every challenge, all we need is to have faith and love. <br />The healing process is long, I spend so many years in denial, then came the realization and acceptance that I was in real pain. After that bitterness and feeling like a victim… finally understanding and contentment. <br />Now, love and the need to share it with everyone.<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-73334490253611526962010-03-18T15:13:58.382+02:002010-03-18T15:13:58.382+02:00i saw myself in this story.. thank you Gabi.. we a...i saw myself in this story.. thank you Gabi.. we are not alone..<br />Love and Gratitude<br />AnnieAnniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00047430122325979050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-74260168735797649582010-03-18T14:49:55.910+02:002010-03-18T14:49:55.910+02:00Dear Gabi,
The human spirit and our ability to ri...Dear Gabi,<br /><br />The human spirit and our ability to rise above it all still amazes me. People who have been through hell have so much to teach us and sometimes simply by not being consumed by our negative and painful experiences we can shine the light for so many. Thanks for the reminder!<br /><br />Love,<br />SherrySherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-41768634414733856992010-03-17T20:00:20.959+02:002010-03-17T20:00:20.959+02:00Kass,
thank you so much for sharing your caring fe...Kass,<br />thank you so much for sharing your caring feelings. <br />I know you are going through a hard time and that sometimes you feel overwhelmed, keep strong that everything will work out well. <br />I'm sending all my love and light to you and your mom from my beloved Zambia.<br /><br />You are an inspiration to me!<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-1151430825099878692010-03-17T19:14:42.546+02:002010-03-17T19:14:42.546+02:00Standing,
My beginning was very tough, but thanks ...Standing,<br />My beginning was very tough, but thanks to it I’m who I’m today – could I have been where I’m today if not for it? Who knows, probably not, as for some of us maybe the only way to get it, is through the “hard way”.<br />I don’t know if the reason why I’m still on the planet today is because I’m a fighter or a coward who did not have the guts to end it the easy way… either way I’m very glad I still very much around. <br />Now, I’m ready to share my journey without resentment or feeling like a victim, but with understanding and love.<br /><br />Thank you Standing for being part of my blogging world.<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-75936143614580313702010-03-17T17:52:03.103+02:002010-03-17T17:52:03.103+02:00Gabi - I hardly know what to say. I look at your ...Gabi - I hardly know what to say. I look at your profile picture and I see such tender beauty. Now I know it is because you have been through the refiner's fire. I know there is a reason I discovered blogging and all my wonderful friends. I don't think I would be able to go through watching my mother slowly die if I didn't feel the encouragement and typed-in love from the people here. Magically, they have managed to reach out through my computer and show me love and strength. You are a wonder. Thank you.Kasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05233330248952156754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-22876106925908488202010-03-17T17:46:28.292+02:002010-03-17T17:46:28.292+02:00Welcome to the blog Danielle and thank your for th...Welcome to the blog Danielle and thank your for the encouragement. I will keep writing as doing it has become my connection with the Universe.<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-13722137084897248232010-03-17T17:28:33.208+02:002010-03-17T17:28:33.208+02:00Tag, we do have the same saying and I believe it i...Tag, we do have the same saying and I believe it is true, we do come out stronger but also bitter and hostiles. Then we are prisoners of our past and the people who hurt us, which deeply affects our emotional development.<br />The healing process is very painful but love heals everything.<br />Believing in love is difficult when you are born in an environment where loving or being loved is not permitted.<br />It takes a strong courage to open up to give and receive love, the fear to be hurt again is sometimes overwhelming, but I’m trying my best... so far so good!!<br /><br /><br />Thank you Tag for being there and for sharing your caring thoughts. <br /><br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-54802706577560141852010-03-17T16:41:10.502+02:002010-03-17T16:41:10.502+02:00ah, gabi, i've wondered how you came to know t...ah, gabi, i've wondered how you came to know the things you know. you did it the way most of us get there-the hard way. i deeply understand the urge to escape. thank you for staying on the planet, sharing your Self with us.rrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06457746929116908077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-46877078382392029452010-03-17T16:16:24.958+02:002010-03-17T16:16:24.958+02:00hi
this is what Danielle steel do..
anyway, i like...hi<br />this is what Danielle steel do..<br />anyway, i liked the work you did..<br />keep writingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1974114391557983994.post-77620043108145236652010-03-17T15:47:03.345+02:002010-03-17T15:47:03.345+02:00Gabi, such a beautiful, sad, tender story. There i...Gabi, such a beautiful, sad, tender story. There is a saying here that "whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger." Maybe there is truth there, but it still hurts and damages us. I am so happy that you are here to bring that strength love and hope, you earned through your trials.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00533184345345882921noreply@blogger.com